I felt really sorry for Sansa - she was put in a terrible position of having to lie to her future husband and mother-in-law (who is quite obviously vindictive to the max) or having to offend them horribly. I think she did the best that she could under the circumstances - and then was terribly punished for it. Poor Sansa, poor Arya. I think Tyrion needs to slap Joffrey a *lot* more.