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So fandom is great, right? No pairing too cracktastic, no kink too extreme to have at least one community or fic challenge dedicated to it. Mind you, I’m aware that not all fandoms are created equal, and you’re less likely to get flamed for writing non-con bestiality incest chan in the Fandom Of 1000 kinks aka the HP fandom (or start a series of posts both defending and condemning non-con bestiality incest chan, and then there are sockpuppets, and then a bunch of people delete their ljs, and then the whole thing ends up in Metafandom and Fandom Wank…actually, that sounds exactly like the HP fandom!) than if you write said story in say, Veronica Mars.

Generally speaking though, in fanfic, no subject is really taboo, right?

Except for the things that kind of are.


Adultery/Infidelity: This one has become significantly more common after the Crapilogue Of Doom, if for no reason than the purely practical. Yes, Harry might be considerate enough to divorce Ginny before jumping into bed with Draco/Newly Ressurected!Snape/Hermione/Teddy Lupin but sometimes, it just doesn’t work out that way. In just as many fics, Ginny ends up preemptively leaving Harry for a fellow Quiddich Player (and how much do I love a fandom where that’s already a fanon cliché?), or because she realizes how deeply messed up/deeply gay he is. Or she ends up tragically dying, because she’s considerate like that (or more likely, because the author doesn’t want Harry to look bad).

I awful lot of fans seem to have a pronounced Infidelity Squick. And when it’s actually infidelity within the pairing, then well! This becomes the kind of thing that requires actual warnings, like “charater death”, “water sports” and “bottom!Snape”.

I don’t really get it. Infidelity can be the basis of great drama-just ask Tolstoy! It’s got readily built-in angst, tension and complications, and unlike some of the verse-specific angst, it’s something readers can relate to, at least somewhat easier than it is to relate to the angst of being in love with a Werewolf/Slytherin/Death Eater/Reanimated by Magic Corpse.

Is the problem that it’s a theme that hits too close to home? Yes, in real life, infidelity is a Bad Thing. But then, so is murder, rape or teachers having sex with their sixteen-year-old students, and no of course I’m not equating the level of wrongness in any way, just pointing some typical fic plot points that are overall more popular and (mostly) unchallenged than character A stepping out on character B in an A/B fic.

It’s not unique in fanfic. I love the show Dexter and given the lack of interest/discussion of it on my flist, like to read the TWP forums after every episode (not participate myself, since I have many issues with TWP I won’t get into here). For those who don’t know, the main character of the show is a serial killer. One who only goes after bad guys, sure, and one played by the infinitely charismatic and dead sexy Michael C. Hall, but the bottom line? Serial killer.

Last season included a subplot of Dexter having an affair with a sociopathic headcase by the name of Lila, despite being in a long term relationship with Rita. And then the Internets exploded. Suddenly, much of the season arc and non-soap opera plot elements were pushed to the side in favour of a screaming discussion about how Lila is a terrible character and actress (kind of true on the former, YES on the latter), arguments about whether this technically constituted cheating (“We were on a BREAK!”/Ross Gellar> and a whole lot of (overwhelmingly female) fans grumbling about how they could ‘never look at Dexter the same way again’ and the character was ‘ruined’ for them. And I repeat, fans previously adoring and even woobifying a sociopath who routinely chops people into little bits and have impassionate morally relativist arguments justifying his every action, but oh no, he cheats his girlfriend and suddenly they think he’s kind of a bastard? (This? Is precisely why I avoid the TWP forums!) Oh, fandom, what sweet crack you’re smoking!

Abortion: This is by no means limited to fic: abortion is the pink elephant in the room of popular media, an option that is not only not taken, but seldom even considered. Hell, it might as well not exist.

I realise that it’s a divisive topic (well, in some cultures. I’m happy to say that despite the many ways Greek society is socially backwards, reproductive rights are largely a non-issue. Abortion is legal and acceptable, and that’s all there is to it). Not everyone in fandom is pro-choice, but if you go by the way unwanted pregnancies are handled in fic alone, you’d think nobody is.

Here’s the thing: it doesn’t really matter how you (the writer, the reader, the random troll who stops by to flame) would handle an unwanted pregnancy, only how the character would. If you’re writing BSG where canon states that abortions are illegal and one of the show’s themes in the survival of the human race then yes, the character would probably have the baby. (Or they might go for a highly dangerous illegal abortion to get rid of their potentially homicidal half-Cylon spawn, and presto! Instant drama!). If you’re writing about school age Hermione getting pregnant, especially as a result of rape? Then she would probably abort. Or she could conceivably not, but as I reader I require a hell of of a lot of explaining for that option. Saying ‘Hermione believed in the sanctity of life’ is imposing your own cultural bias on a middle-class, progressive, academically-focused British girl, and it makes me cringe and grit my teeth more than other examples of lazy writing/OOCness.

Look, it’s not as if it’s a plot I encounter particularly often. I make a conscious effect to avoid baby!fic and I mostly read slash, but when I do occasionally stumble upon it, mostly in Snape/Hermione fic, I’m deeply disturbed by the writer posting apologetic author’s notes about even mentioning the “A” word or even worse, anti-choice being kind of the default fic setting. Since I’m assuming not every single writer's personal politics are anti-abortion, then a big chunk self-censor. TV shows/films self-censor to avoid loss of adverts/viewers. Fic writers self-censor…why exactly? Losing readers? You do anyway by your choice of paring/rating/inclusion of the words ‘frock coat’/because X BNF that Y reader hates in your flist. Flames? The very act of posting a fanfic in the HP verse online makes flames a real possibility. I’m not saying every writer should engage in an awareness-raising campaign, all I’m saying is that if you’re prepared to stand by your choice to write Underage/Crossgen/Rickman!Snape, be prepared to stand by your choice to write…well, choice.

Date: 2008-02-21 04:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mondegreen.livejournal.com
I once read a H/D mpreg fic (DON'T JUDGE ME) where Draco tried to abort using a potion but, despite excruciating pain, the potion didn't work. Although Draco had been, to his surprise, relieved the potion didn't work, it turned out that the process of birthing the baby was even more painful. And then the fic went on to be even more bleak as Harry and Draco made a family (unexpected birth after unexpected birth) and both their relationship and Draco's health slowly deteriorated. The entire fic was bittersweet, but very heavy on the bitter. The painful, painful bitter. After I was done reading, I thought, "Wow, life kind of sucks." But, even though I sort of regretted reading it, I admired how a seemingly cracktastic fic could engage in such ambiguous politics: would have Draco and Harry's lives been better if the potion had worked? Was all the physical and emotional pain worth it? Sadly, though, Draco never seemed to have any choice in what happened to his body throughout the fic, and that was deeply devastating and disturbing.

I love infidelity fic! Especially if it occurs within the main pairing itself. I demand all of every fandom reads this post so more infidelity fic will be written

Date: 2008-02-21 04:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ishtar79.livejournal.com
That fic sounds disturbing as hell! Forced!pregnancy is one of my biggest phobias. I read a fic recently where a male character sabotaged a female character's contraception (not naming names, in case it's better known than I assumed) and then makes it so that she doesn't have access to contraception. There was an intricate plot reason for all of that, of course, but it put me off like you wouldn't believe. Almost equally disturbing were the reviews cheerfully ignoring the gross violation and just gushing about the sex scenes and 'romance'.

Yay for infidelity fic!

Date: 2008-02-21 04:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mondegreen.livejournal.com
Forced!pregnancy is one of my biggest phobias.

Ditto. That fic I wrote about really disturbed me -- so much so that it stuck with me until now. Haha. That fic you gave an example of could be a good example of pro-choice through the negative. But that pro-choice position could easily be neutralized if the couple had lived "happily ever after." And if fic readers just don't get it (which happens more than I'd like to think).

I don't know if you watch Weeds? But, despite it being a good show, I watched one episode ever. It happened to be one where the main character's oldest son stuck a hole in a condom with a needle so he could impregnate his deaf girlfriend so she wouldn't leave for university. I found it so repulsive that I couldn't watch anymore. LOL.

Date: 2008-02-21 04:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ishtar79.livejournal.com
Yes, I remember that Weeds episode! The girl definitely didn't get pregnant. I don't remember if Nancy ever found out, but if she did, I hope there was a serious ass whopping.

Date: 2008-02-21 05:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mondegreen.livejournal.com
The girl definitely didn't get pregnant.

Oh, okay, good. That makes it somewhat less repulsive. One drop less of repulsive in a sea of repulsiveness. LOL. Maybe I should watch the other episodes of Weeds now.

Go Nancy!

Date: 2008-02-21 05:29 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] sistermagpie.livejournal.com
No, no, she absolutely did get pregnant! But she never found out he did it on purpose and neither did anyone else. He tried to pressure her into having the baby but she had an abortion (thank goodness). And they broke up.

Date: 2008-02-21 08:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ishtar79.livejournal.com
Ok, clearly I need to rewatch Weeds S1. I don't remember any of this!

Date: 2008-02-22 12:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ioanna.livejournal.com
I've hated Silas forever for that shit he pulled. That and others, I want that little shit dead. And I can't believe you forgot that abortion. I was cheering that abortion like you wouldn't believe!

Date: 2008-02-22 04:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ishtar79.livejournal.com
Yay for TV abortion depictions, *especially* regarding teen pregnancy!

Date: 2008-02-21 05:27 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] sistermagpie.livejournal.com
Oh my god, I just wrote my whole post on this and totally missed you were already talking about this episode.

I don't think Nancy ever found out about the sabotage. She would have killed him.

Date: 2008-02-21 05:27 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] sistermagpie.livejournal.com
Oh god, I remember when a character actually did that on Weeds. The girl never actually found out but wow, that relationship was over as far as I was concerned. And luckily it did end on the show too, because the girl had no intention of having this baby and the boy was all, "Yay, now you can stay with me forever and I've got a million names for the kid!" It was really frightening watching this idiot teenaged boy try to hold on to his girlfriend like a little kid with his mommy by IMPREGNATING HER WITHOUT HER CONSENT!

Date: 2008-02-21 08:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ishtar79.livejournal.com
Hee, I'm amused that both of your minds went to that plotline.

Mine probably would have too, if not for my worrying memory loss!

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